Saturday, December 18, 2010

Again, I miss public transportation

In Ukraine, I took public transportation for in-city travel, of course, but also for inter-city travel (like when I visited Dnipropetrovsk or Kiev). I did not always love it. If you take the inter-city buses in summer, you nearly roast to death (no AC and people are often reluctant to open windows AND there are always more people than the bus manufacturers ever intended). If you take the inter-city buses in winter, you never get warm. On the 4+ hour rides to Dnipr, I'd keep my winter coat (and often my gloves and hat) on the whole way. It's a sign that you're going to be cold when there's a thin layer of ice coating the windows...

These buses were also VERY old and clunky. Seriously- most of them have been around since well before the Soviet Union dissolved. They often break down, there is almost no leg room, the luggage bins overhead will hold the equivalent of a 3-ring binder, and heaven knows when the seats and curtains were last clean. The seats are very narrow, and I almost always ended up next to very large men who took up more than their fair shares of the available seating.

As uncomfortable as the rides could be, I truly enjoyed the rides (after the first couple wherein I had NO idea what was going on or if I'd actually get to where I was trying to go or if I'd get left at a random bus stop). I particularly enjoyed the rides in the winter- when the leaves had fallen off of the trees. I really came to appreciate the beauty of the tree limbs. It's sort of like art, and I could stare at the branches for the whole ride. I did several times, actually.

I came home for Christmas break the other day. The ride was so different from the inter-city trips in Ukraine. I was driving my car, had total control over the temperature, and wasn't sharing a seat with anyone. I like that situation, for sure. However, I sort of missed the intercultural experience and the solitary times of reflection I usually had on buses.

I know that sounds lame and sappy, but I never fully realized how much I liked those things until now. The nice parts of the trips were usually overshadowed by things like big, smelly men and icy windows and grumpy bus driver. And little kids running up the aisles and animals on the bus and no leg room. And wretched roadside pit stops.

But, the trees were truly lovely.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

On Weddings.

Well, Brad and I are in the throes of preparing for our wedding. It's really fun in some ways. In some ways, it's really overwhelming to think of all the little details that have to be taken care of. According to any wedding magazine, we're already months behind on planning- and we're still 6 months out from getting married!


Things that have been accomplished:

*Engagement ring- check

*Chapel applied for and reserved- check

*Bridesmaids and groomsmen secured- check

*Dress, veil, and shoes purchased- check

*Initial gift registries started- check

*Officiant on calendar- check

*Pianist- check

*Honeymoon planned out (mostly)- check

*Invitations- check


Things left to be accomplished:

It's a super-long list, so I'll just mention the things that are causing me the most head-scratching moments.

*Bridesmaids dresses- Oi. I have the color picked, but the actual dress is sort of elusive.

*Caterer for reception- WAY too many choices available. I'm no good with choices, after Ukraine.

*Photographer- I really detest having gobs of pictures taken. I tend to get REALLY grumpy.

*Address list- This is an unaccomplishable task; I'm completely convinced.

*Music- We can't seem to narrow things down.

Anyway, I feel like I should have started planning my wedding about 4 years ago, in order to be timely and on top of things. Also, there are some SUPER creative people in this world; these wedding magazines are full of wedding and reception ideas that would NEVER have occurred to me.

Technically, we have a knot.com site (we had to sign up so that we could access some sites we wanted to check out). I went through and filled out a page about us, and this is the link here.

I'll keep you posted on how things are coming. I'm hoping to get a lot accomplished in January. We'll see how that goes.

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Merry Christmas to All!

MEV and I put up our Christmas decorations this week! Brad and I decided to go ahead and buy a Christmas tree that will be the Boswell tree beginning next Christmas...but he said it was ok for ME and I to use it this year. Isn't he so nice?


First on the agenda: crank up the Christmas music! I think we listened to an ecclectic assortment of the Trans-Siberian orchestra, Bing Crosby, Jessica Simpson, and Hanson. We got our tree all set up and then had the best time decorating the tree and the rest of the living room. All of our ornaments and decorations seem to have great stories attached to them. We have Natvity sets from Botswana and India, Ded Moroz stacking dolls from Ukraine, handmade ornaments from MEV's friends from South Asia, Egyptian glass ornaments that my aunt got for me after our family fell in love with Egypt, the ornaments that my Ukrainian friends made when they visited my apartment last Christmas, along with ornaments that we've collected from family and friends over the years. It's neat to look at our decorations, which are so full of significance and memories, and think of God's faithfulness to us over the years. Here's some photographic evidence for your holiday enjoyment:


The living room. The garland strung across the windows was made by a friend of MEV's from South Asia. It's cute- little felt circles stitched up. See Brad's and my tree?


Nativity from Botswana.


Nativity from India.

My New Year's bell from Ukraine. I realize it's not New Year, but it's really pretty.

As a Union employee, I get the faculty/staff Christmas ornament this year.

Egyptian glass ornament.

Ded Moroz, Snegurochka, snowman, bear, and penguin.

MEV's lamb and Asian bell.

MEV's ornament from a friend in South Asia.

Ornaments from our respective international locations.

This angel was made by a friend of mine, Olya, in Ukraine.

Last Christmas, in Ukraine, I had friends decorate ornaments for my tree. This was Nastia's.

A middle school-aged friend of mine from my Ukrainian church made me this stocking last year. I'm not sure it's actually supposed to hang on a tree, but that's where it'll live for this year.

Ukrainian church.

I love just sitting in the living room and checking everything out. I also enjoy the tree more, knowing that it came pre-lit! I mean, who wouldn't, right?

Happy Christmas season!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Camera Clean Out, Part 2

I found these pictures on my camera, too, which reminded me that I never did share about Day 2 of Engagement Weekend.

If you remember, Brad's ruse for getting me to be unsuspecting of the upcoming proposal was by leading me to think we were going to Wicked on Friday night (fake email from the theater, telling me our seats had been overbooked- remember the trickery?). Surprise! That wasn't true- we were really going on SATURDAY night.

So, Saturday night rolls around, and we get dressed up to head to Memphis. Mom asked to take a few pictures of us:

Mom was playing with the camera and caught us in the mirror. Then, we staged a pose and reshot this picture.


Mom's artistic side came out.

There was potential for a good picture here...but there's some major glare on Brad's glasses.


So, Brad tilted his glasses, which gave him this super weird look...and I look like Quasimodo.

I'm pretty sure I said something snarky about Brad's glasses-tilt, and that resulted in this face from Brad.


This is very appropos of our relationship. I promise we like each other.

This was our "we give up, but here's a picture of the ring" pose.

We headed off to Memphis; Brad had made us reservations at an INCREDIBLE restaurant in the Peabody Hotel, and we planned out enough time for us to see the famous Peabody ducks before dinner. I love ducks and was SUPER excited about seeing these particular ducks.

Our ride to Memphis was great; we talked through some wedding stuff and calendaring stuff and got to Memphis with plenty of time. While we were waiting for the ducks to make their appearances, Brad made a startling statement:

Brad: Oh no...I don't have the tickets.

Erin: Which tickets?

Brad: The Wicked tickets.

Erin: Stop that. It worked last night, but I'm on to you now.

Brad: I'm really sorry...I don't have them.

Erin: Seriously, quit.

Brad: Seriously, the tickets are in Jackson!

We went on like this for a few more minutes before I actually believed him and started to panic. He called his roommate, who was going to help us try to find a way to get the tickets. In the midst of all his business, the ducks made their appearance. Unfortunately, there were a lot of people in front of me, and this was the only picture I got:


Long story short: Brad's roommate decided to buy cheap nosebleed tickets- last minute- and drove our tickets to us. We got in the theater with 15 minutes to spare. Whew! We love Roommate. Here's a picture of us in front of the theater, post-show:

We had a GREAT time (once we got our tickets and got in, that is...)!


And here's a picture of my ring.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Camera Clean Out

Here is a flashback to waaaay back in October when Sister Dear had a birthday! I planned, along with Amiee's friends, a surprise birthday party. You should ask Kat about how awesome I am at planning surprise birthday parties...another story for another day.

A small group of us went to dinner at a local Mexican restaurant while friends decorated and set up for the party in the dorm room. Amiee was forced to wear a sombrero and then had whipped cream smudged on her nose. She loved it...very much the opposite of how I would have felt. I'm boring, I know. :)


The whole thing actually came off without a hitch- shocking! Here's a picture of Amiee and all of her cute friends. Aww...